Self-Love Commitment Ceremony

This Valentine’s Day, we gather not to wait for commitment—but to become it.

The Self-Love Commitment Ceremony is a sacred, intentional online gathering where women come together to make a formal spiritual commitment to themselves.

The concept here is that we need to commit to ourselves and fully understand what it means to be committed—not cheat on ourselves, not abandon ourselves, not disappear when things get uncomfortable, but to actually show up for ourselves. We have to learn to set the standard and the bar for how we’re treated should we choose to be in a relationship. Our first and most important relationship is with ourselves.

And because this evening falls under the energy of a New Moon portal, we’ll also use that frequency as a gentle backdrop—renewal, starting fresh, and choosing a higher standard from this moment forward. Not as the whole theme, but as a supportive energetic current for the vows you’re making to yourself.

This is an opportunity for women to come together and have a commitment ceremony so that they can commit to themselves to uphold their standards, to stand firm in their boundaries, to not waver for breadcrumbs or even for the whole damn loaf.

There will be an instructional teaching. We’re going to do energy expansion and energetic clearing. And we’re going to come together and go through a full spiritual commitment to ourselves in front of each other, guided by Reverend Goddess Kimse LaMeel.

The kit will include everything needed for the ceremony except for the ring. It is suggested that you purchase yourself a ring before or after the ceremony.

After the ceremony, there will be open time for chat and toasting and celebration of your commitment to yourself.

And there will be an introductory class into GoddessLife planning.

What’s Included in Your Self-Love Commitment Ceremony Kit

Each participant will receive a carefully curated Self-Love Commitment Ceremony Kit, designed to support a full-body, heart-centered commitment to yourself. Every item in this kit is intentional and ceremonial, created to anchor your vows into the body, the nervous system, and your daily life.

Goddess Body Candle
A sculptural candle honoring the feminine form. This candle serves as the ceremonial witness, representing devotion to your body, your worth, and your pleasure. It is lit during the ceremony and may be returned to whenever you choose to reaffirm your commitment to yourself.

Ritual Mirror
Used during the ceremony to speak your vows directly to yourself. The mirror anchors presence, self-recognition, and truth, supporting you in staying with yourself rather than abandoning your needs or boundaries.

Ring Intention Card
A sacred card designed to charge and hold your ring. Whether you bring a ring to the ceremony or choose one afterward, this card supports imbuing the ring with your commitment, allowing it to serve as a physical anchor for your vows.

Box of Ceremonial Chocolate